#279 - Compromise
com·pro·mise
1. a settlement of differences by mutual concessions; an agreement reached by adjustment of conflicting or opposing claims, principles, etc., by reciprocal modification of demands.
Many have often asked how's marriage life?
My answer (so-far) "ok lorx" seems shocking?!
1. a settlement of differences by mutual concessions; an agreement reached by adjustment of conflicting or opposing claims, principles, etc., by reciprocal modification of demands.
Many have often asked how's marriage life?
My answer (so-far) "ok lorx" seems shocking?!
For the fact that Rabb and I have never cohabited before for the past 7 years, I was also worried about the problems we might faced after living together.
Worried and fear!
Today, exact 3 months since 29th July 2012.....
Everything still seems like yesterday, so surreal.
We applied for this haven, took the keys, renovated the place into our ideal haven, go thru the wedding, living together, 1st person I sees in the morning, last person I see at nite, leaving for work together, spending everyday and for the rest of our life together.. ..
As people says, marriage is an advantage. We are on this expedition together and for the rest of our life.
Therefore, compromising is really important.
Although occasionally we may still have issues or clashes but we will resolve it within the day.
If either of us refuses to give in, guess our house will become a war-zone now.
Hah!
I am enjoying my everyday with the Hubs (so far).
Imagine us gossiping about other people's house decor or furniture together, gossiping about our neighbours, how elated he can be if he can manage to park the car at Deck 1 which happens only long long 1 time, doing midnite groccery shopping, etc...
"I love being married.
It's so great to find that special person you wanna annoy for the rest of your life."
xoxo
Worried and fear!
Today, exact 3 months since 29th July 2012.....
Everything still seems like yesterday, so surreal.
We applied for this haven, took the keys, renovated the place into our ideal haven, go thru the wedding, living together, 1st person I sees in the morning, last person I see at nite, leaving for work together, spending everyday and for the rest of our life together.. ..
As people says, marriage is an advantage. We are on this expedition together and for the rest of our life.
Therefore, compromising is really important.
Although occasionally we may still have issues or clashes but we will resolve it within the day.
If either of us refuses to give in, guess our house will become a war-zone now.
Hah!
I am enjoying my everyday with the Hubs (so far).
Imagine us gossiping about other people's house decor or furniture together, gossiping about our neighbours, how elated he can be if he can manage to park the car at Deck 1 which happens only long long 1 time, doing midnite groccery shopping, etc...
"I love being married.
It's so great to find that special person you wanna annoy for the rest of your life."
xoxo




































